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My Skin Journey: After 6 Months

11 October 2017

Hi everyone!

Months ago I shared the start of my 30s skin journey – I talked about seeing a dermatologist, discovering the amazing results of prescription Vitamin A and I chose not to have any laser done.

Instead of laser, I decided to have Collagen Induction Therapy (CIT) for my acne scars at Iconic Medispa in South Perth.

Here’s my initial blog post about CIT, where I explain the details of the treatment and my experience of the whole process.

For me, blemishes, redness and pigmentation were easy to cover up with makeup. So I wanted to target my acne scars, large pores and skin texture – but my overall results were soooo much better than I expected.

I never thought I’d be one to put such close up photos of my face on my blog, but there you go.

Everyone (including me) loves a good before and after photo!

Results are everything!

(more…)


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10 Things: How I Make Time to Read

6 October 2017

Catch-22 by Joseph Heller

Phew I finally finished reading Catch-22 by Joseph Heller. I’ve been reading it for 7 months haha!

In that time I also managed to read 2 other books though.

My thoughts: Wacky and quirky. First 2/3 was veeeery slooooow to get through. Last 1/3 was absolutely brilliant. It was so so funny and wicked at the end. I burst out laughing so many times (I almost never do that!).

Why did I read it?

I think I mentioned this before. I’m trying to read more classic literature – because I like reading, because FOMO, and because I scroll through so much crap on the internet, I really need to do something tricky and challenging for my brain.

I’m working my way down a “Best Novels of All Time” list. Actually I’m picking my way through the list.

My husband read this novel in high school, this was his copy, and it was on our shelf.

I tend to alternate a Classic Novel with a Modern Novel. I haven’t had much luck with the modern novels though.

So this is how I fit more reading into my life:

1) I just aim to read 2 pages every night. Sometimes I will read 2 pages or sometimes 16 page. Occasionally I’ll read 1/2 of a novel in one sitting.

2) Carry a book in my car or my handbag. While I’m waiting for someone (my kids) or something to finish (sports training), instead of being on my phone, I try to read a few pages of my book.

3) Leave books lying around the house. I like to make cute stacks. I like to collect nice cover editions.

4) Fill my spare moments with reading. When I’ve got a few minutes up my sleeve, I try to make a point to NOT reach for my smartphone, and reach for my book instead.

5) Read the book before I watch the movie. As a result, I have not watched a lot of movies haha.

6) Track my reading with Goodreads. It’s so good! I can track when I start a book and which books I’ve read in what order. It’s like tracking my running.

7) Read while doing something else that I like doing. I like to drink coffee, tea and eat snacks haha.

8) Join a bookclub or make book-nerd friends. Ok I’m not in a bookclub. But I have friends who read a lot. So I’m constantly swapping books or talking about books. And my husband is a total book-nerd too.

9) Buy cool books. I like buying books, especially from op-shops. I’m totally addicted to scoring a winning book for $2.

10) Make a list. My To-Read list is a combination of “Best books of all time”… “Best Books of 19th / 20th Century”… “Award winning books” and “Oprah’s Recommendations”.

What am I reading now?

Last year I read 13 books (a record for me!) you can see my up-to-date reading list here. Please join and be my friend on Goodreads (do I sound desperate? that’s because I am! I want to know what everyone is reading right now!)

This year I’ve only read 6 so far, but I’m cool with that.

I’ve started to read The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde. I’m only a few chapters in and it is an amazing read so far. I’m actually find it humourous at the moment, because it draws so many parallels with the modern day obsession with the Selfie and Instagram?!


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Review: Sudio Wireless On-Ear Headphones

30 September 2017

Brought to you by Sudio Sweden

Travelling with Sudio Regent

A couple of weeks ago, I headed off for a girls weekend by the beach!

I planned to have a few hours to myself before meeting my girlfriends, so I packed a few essential items for some ME TIME – yippee!

It was extra fun because I was able to test out my new Wireless On-Ear Headphones sent to me for review by the kind folk at Sudio Sweden.

I ended up in a cafe over looking the beach. I sipped on a coffee, put my feet up, and sat back with a book and my headphones. It was so good!

Style and Price

Firstly these headphones look great. They have a retro / minimal / sleek feel to them, which I adore.

They don’t look ultra-modern, or straight from a sci-fi, space movie, which I don’t adore.

They are priced at AUD $129, which sits nicely between “cheap and cheerful” and “OMG $600 for a pair of headphones are you kidding me??”.

The price also makes it a nice gift.

What’s the Sound Quality Like?

Let me just put this out there. I’m no tech reviewer. And I have never worn a pair of super high-quality, on-ear, wireless headphones before, so I don’t actually know what to compare it with. If you’re a music or sound expert, feel free to poo-poo me.

However I have worn cheap $30 on-ear headphones from Target… and even I think they are just terrible for their sound quality.

These Sudio headphones are far far faaaaaaar better than those $30 headphones. These are amazing! My music sounds great!

If this is $129 worth of sound quality, how can the sound get any better than this?? I’d be very interested to hear what $600 of sound quality is like?! This sounds pretty good to me. I’m pretty happy with the quality.

Travelling with Sudio Regent

Material Quality

The head phones and head band are both padded and covered by a soft leatherette kind of material that feels really nice, smooth and soft to touch.

The head band is adjustable. They are very comfortable to wear. The ear phones collapse and fold inwards to make it more compact for storage. The ear caps are interchangeable. The parts move nicely and smoothly. The whole thing feels like a good quality, stylish product.

Everyday Usage

Once I read the instructions (two sentences!), they were very easy to use and pair up to all my devices via bluetooth.

They are very easy to transport. I just threw them into my bag and off I went. The don’t have any shiny surfaces, so I’m not worried about them getting scratched.

Apparently they have a 24 hour battery life, but I haven’t actually tested that, as I always keep them charged.

They are great for when I work on the computer at home. It blocks out so much more noise than my regular ear pods! I can’t hear my kids! It’s great!

The headband is nice and firm, so they don’t flip off if I walk or move or bend down to pick something off the ground.

Cons

I’m struggling to find some fault in these headphones….

Perhaps after wearing them for a long time, I find that I’m not used to the pressure of the headphones over my ears and I feel a bit light headed? But that’s because I have sensitive inner ears. So probably not a concern for most people.

Best thing about them:

Nothing says “Do Not Disturb” like a pair of over-ear headphones haha!

Special Discount

The lovely team at Sudio have given me a 15% off discount to share with my readers.

Simply use the coupon code “KARENLYCHENG” at the checkout. Express Shipping is FREE worldwide.

So with my code, these headphones will only cost AUD $110, which is pretty sweet.

These headphones are called “Regent” and come in black and white.

Hope you find this review to be helpful!

Enjoy!

xxx


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A Helicopter Ride and Lunch in Dunsborough

5 September 2017

Last weekend, 5 of my girlfriends and I went on a girls only weekend in Yallingup (beautiful coastal town in the South West).

We stayed in a lovely house, which belonged to one of my friend’s mum, with spectacular views overlooking the ocean.

Most importantly, we did a whole lot of NON-MUM things like:

– ZERO cooking.
– Ate cheese for dinner.
– Slept in.
– Winery lunch.

We also had a last minute helicopter ride before lunch!!?

Helicopter Ride, Dunsborough

My other friend’s brother-in-law is a helicopter pilot and owns a helicopter (as you do). He was in the area that weekend and wondered if we wanted a joy ride?!

It could only fit 3 passengers, so we split into 2 groups. My friend Lucy and I had to play “Scissors Paper Rock” to see who would sit in the front seat haha!

I won. But somehow her photos turned out so much better than mine, as I had a lot of reflection from all the glass.

Helicopter Ride, Dunsborough

We took off from Dunsborough and flew south, towards Gracetown on the coast. We went past Canal Rocks, Sugarloaf Rock, The Cape Naturaliste Lighthouse and over Dunsborough town.

Yup, it was pretty amazing!!!

Helicopter Ride, Dunsborough

I have been in a hot air ballon before (read my blog post here) and I’ve also had hands-on flying experience in a small airplane (blog post here – omg such a fun read, if I do say so myself).

This helicopter ride was much different. It was faster, noisier, we covered more area, I felt much more agile in the air, and I was able to see so much more. Because there was so much glass, I felt like my body was flying through the air. I felt closer to the ground and like I could reach out and touch stuff.

It was a once in a lifetime experience!

Helicopter Ride, Dunsborough

Amazing arial view of Canal Rocks!

This photo taken by my friend, on her iPhone.

The helicopter ride took about 30 minutes. I think it was long enough for me, as I was getting a bit motion sick at the end.

Cullens Winery 2017

After that, we drove over to Cullen Winery to enjoy a late lunch, dessert and coffee.

Then we went back to the house, where I sat back on the couch to read until sunset, while a few of my girlfriends went for a walk, and much later, we ate cheese for dinner haha.

It was such an awesome day! It was definitely one of those pinch me moments, where I was so thankful and grateful to all the lovely, generous and soul-healing people in my life! xxx

Cullen Winery 2017


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Sneak Peek: Uluru Base Walk

19 August 2017

Uluru Base Walk 2017

I’m still trying to edit all my photos from our family trip to Uluru.

I thought I’d share this beautiful photo I took during our walk along the base of Uluru.

Although most of the walk was around the outside of the rock, there were some parts where the path allowed visitors to come up close and “inside” it.

It was absolutely magical!


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The Great Mouse Invasion of 2017

11 August 2017

Mouse Invasion of 2017

So this is the reason why things have been a bit quiet on the blog these last few weeks.

We have mice in our house.

(Not cute plush ones. Real ones.)

We came home from our 4 week trip away… and my son discovered that he had left a zip lock bag of almonds in his school bag. The bag was shredded up and instead of almonds, there was a whole lot of mouse poo.

There was mouse poo everywhere in the house!

Inside ALL THREE of my children’s cupboards, the mice had made several nests in their clothes, in the boxes, in the blankets, in the lego boxes, in the teddybear and toy boxes.

Every single shelf, box and cupboard had mouse poo, so every shelf, box and cupboard had to be cleaned.

Bedroom 1. Bedroom 2. Bedroom 3. Games room.

So much cleaning! So much disinfecting! So much laundry!

It’s been 3 weeks since returning home and we have only caught 8 mice so far. There are more, but they are the smart ones who know how to steal food from the traps without setting them off.

I wish I could have a break from all the cleaning, but this morning I opened my pantry and caught a tiny whiff of a peculiar smell, which didn’t smell like anything I was familiar with.

Which means I’ll have to clean my pantry from top to bottom, ugh.

What are your plans for the weekend?


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28 Day Central Australia Road Trip, Part 1 – Perth, Kalgoorlie, Menzies, Lake Ballard, Leonora, Laverton, Warburton, Warakurna

8 August 2017

Uluru Road Trip 2017

Hi everyone!

My husband and I took thousands of photos during our trip around Central Australia and it was quite a feat to go through them all. So I’m just sharing the highlights with you all!

We went with two friends and their two kids (twins aged 6), while our kids were ages 14, 12 and 8.

Our friends are planning a yearlong trip around Australia, so this was a “trial” trip for them – we were just tagging along! Sort of! They were the ones who spent an incredible amount of time doing all the reading, research and planning for places to go, places to camp, routes to take, things to see, maps to print out, equipment to take, etc etc.

We travelled in two 4WD Toyota Prados, one towing a camper trailer (theirs) and one with a regular trailer (ours).

Uluru Road Trip 2017

Day 1 – We left Perth drove and about 6 hours to Coolgardie (just East of Kalgoorlie).

Since we had kids, we had lots of toilet stops and a long lunch stop to stretch our legs, so we were on the road for about 8 hours.

Uluru Road Trip 2017

We used an app called, WikiCamps to find ourselves a roadside, campsite in the bush.

It wasn’t an official campsite and it had no water, electricity, toilets, showers or anything. It was just a nice patch of dirt amongst some bushes. We made sure we left the place as it was and took all our rubbish away.

It was kind of fun, we felt like we had the whole outback to ourselves.

Uluru Road Trip 2017

Day 2 – We drove into Kalgoorlie and stopped to see the Super Pit, Australia’s second largest open cut gold mine. It’s about 3.5km long, 1.5km wide and about 600m deep.

It was humongous and rather horrifying to think about it’s ecological impact.

Uluru Road Trip 2017

We hung out at Hammond Park in Kalgoorlie.

It was a fantastic playground for kids – lots of green grass, picnic areas, shade, climbing things, sculptures, a pond, a kiosk and an aviary.

Uluru Road Trip 2017

There was a large emu enclosure with some beautiful emus and peacocks.

And there were some cages with talking cockatoos – my kids had never heard a bird say “Hello” and it kind of BLEW. THEIR. MINDS.

Uluru Road Trip 2017

We drove north for 1.5 hours to a town called, Menzies.

Then headed west to Lake Ballard, a salt lake made famous by a permanent art exhibition called “Inside Australia” created by artist Antony Gormley.

It features 51 metal sculptures based on laser body-scans of local residents from Menzies and a few “out of towners”.

Uluru Road Trip 2017

The sculptures were ghostly and creepy but beautiful and serene at the same time.

Set in the vast landscape, surrounded by salt, visitor’s footsteps, mud, rocks… it was quite an extraordinary sight.

Uluru Road Trip 2017

The sculptures were spread out over 10kms, so it was quite a walk. I only saw about 5 of them.

We anticipated that the ground was going to be muddy and sticky, so we taped plastic bags over our boots. Or course, the kids climbed the rocky hill, which ripped up their plastic bags, and they ended up with muddy boots anyway.

Uluru Road Trip 2017

This was our set up! Since we were covering so much distance and stopping at so many places just for one night, we decided to buy two pop up tents. They were awesome, because they literally took 10 seconds to set up and 2 minutes to pack away.

They aren’t so good with rain, wind or storms though, hence we brought a gazebo for extra shelter (you can see the gazebo frame set up in the photo, because the weather was a bit iffy).

We camped at the edge of the salt lake, at a designated campsite.

We had a spectacular view of the sunset!

Uluru Road Trip 2017

This is my 8yo, who, after cleaning his boots and changing into his clean clothes, decided to take a photo of the sunset without stepping away from his tent, to keep his socks clean.

Uluru Road Trip 2017

The sunset was amazing!

The hills, the lake, the sand all around us changed colours, in a magical, delicate, subtle way; with hints of gold, pinks, oranges and pale greyish purples – oh the colours – it was hard to believe it without seeing it with your own eyes!

Uluru Road Trip 2017

Day 3 – We drove north to Leonara, then over to Laverton where we began “The Outback Way” route, which is the main road through Central Australia.

It was also the moment the sealed bitumen stopped and the famous red dirt road began.

I had always thought that central Australia was barren like a desert. Turns out that it’s quite green and full of trees and shrubs. I guess it would look very different in Summer (it is Winter in Australia now) and I can only imagine how beautiful it would look in Spring.

We had such good luck with the weather and lack of rain, therefore the roads were in excellent condition.

We spent 7 hours on the road (including a few stops) and covered about 500km. We camped at another bush campsite off the main road.

Uluru Road Trip 2017

Day 4 – We woke up at 6am for another long day on the road. We stopped at the Tjukayirla Roadhouse and thanks to the internet, we were keen to try their “famous” Tjukayirla Burgers. They were $18 each! I was very skeptical, but to our delight, the burgers were delicious.

We fuelled up at Warburton. And arrived late into the Warakurna Roadhouse, where we camped for the night in a Unpowered Caravan/Campsite.

We drove for about 500kms and again it took about 7 hours, including lots of stops.

Oh and it was my first shower in 4 days.

* I could have had a shower at any roadhouse along the way, but it didn’t quite fit into our driving schedule, so I survived on baby wipes.

And on that note, I’ll end this blog post – ha!

My next blog post is about arriving in Uluru / Kata Tjuta National Park.


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After 28 Days of Camping

1 August 2017

2017 Uluru Trip - Home

Well hello there!

I’m back from my epic 28-day road trip around central Australia.

4 weeks without blogging, facebook and social media was certainly… refreshing, liberating and quite frankly, brain changing.

(I did do some updating, but I was only on social media for about 5 minutes every 2-3 days.)

So how was my trip?

We saw some truly amaaaazing sights, visited some unforgettable places and had some incredible experiences!

We had so much quality, family time – it definitely brought our family closer together.

It was great for our boys (aged 14, 12, 8) to experience this kind of bush camping; travelling to places where it was 4WD only, uncertain road conditions, bring your own water, fuel, food, recovery gear, cb radio and have no shower for 5-6 days.

We drove from Perth, to Kalgoorlie, Uluru, Alice Springs, East and West of Alice Springs, Coober Pedy, Streaky Bay (South Australia), Nullarbor, Cocklebiddy, Norseman, back to Kalgoorlie and Perth. We covered about 6500km.

I have a new appreciation for how BIG Australia is!

I do feel grateful for having experienced these places. I’ve heard so much about them, and I can now say with a bit of pride that I’ve been there.

I was struck by the beauty of the landscape and I loved watching the colours change around me throughout the day.

We discovered the joys of audiobooks.

And we discovered we all can sit in the car and be silent, for hours! We made a deal with our kids, if they sat quietly for 1 hour, staring out the window – without any devices. – they could have 1 hour on their phone/ipad (which meant 2 hours of peace and quiet for us). Some days we were in the car for 6-8 hours… and it was so quiet and relaxing. A long road trip with 3 kids?! Who would have thought?!

For me personally… 28 days was too long to be away from home, to be camping in a tent, rushing from place to place, in middle of Winter, with kids!

There was lots of setting up tents + bedding + camp kitchen for one night, then packing it all up again the next morning to be on the road by 8am.

I was cold. I was unsettled. I didn’t enjoy that bit. I craved to be in one place and settle down to make a temporary home. I craved to be in a warm space.

However, the nature of our trip was to cover a lot of distance and see a lot of things, with kids. So I just had to suck it up and try to enjoy as much as I could haha.

A few times during the trip, we stayed at a caravan park for 2 or 3 nights, which was good.

And a few times, we stayed with generous friends in Alice Springs, in their warm, comfortable home. We were so grateful they shared their house with us!

Despite everything… it hasn’t turned me off camping and seeing more of Australia.

We’re already planning our next camping holiday, which will be a much shorter 7-8 day trip.

Since coming home… I’ve been enjoying my soft, warm bed. My ever-lasting hot water shower. Indoor heating. Running water. Electricity. Simple, modern day conveniences.

I’ve been washing clothes, cleaning sleeping bags, airing the tents, storing our camping gear and sweeping up the dust balls in our house.

I’ve been catching up with family and friends. Doing all the things I love, like reading, cooking, writing, photographing, running, yoga… and slowly finding my groove again.

I’m so glad to be back!

I have lots and lots of updates!


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Braces

17 July 2017

Since it’s my birthday month, I thought I’d share something mildly entertaining about myself :)

Braces

When I was 14 years old, I had a severe overbite, my teeth were big and my jaw was crowded.

I had braces. Double train tracks. The whole deal.

I also had the full orthodontic headgear, which fit over my head, with straps, springs, elastics, facebow (pictured above) that fit into the braces on my teeth.

I looked like the Finding Nemo girl!

Braces

Except that MY straps went over my head, like a strap-on helmet. It was intense!

I think I had them for 18 months. It felt like much longer though.

Thankfully I didn’t have to wear my headgear during the day. Just at night.

I think back on the experience now… and I’m surprised that I wasn’t more traumatised by the whole thing haha. I recall that I accepted the idea of braces quickly (I had no choice), I was generally very apathetic about it and in the end I think somewhat enjoyed being a bit different/weird. Although I’m sure my mum and dad might have a different story.

I remember being in lots of pain, and I remember having to do a few things differently, like cutting up my food before I eat and never biting into anything with my front teeth.

I also remember I never had sleepovers outside my family/cousin’s house.

But hey! I am SO thankful that my parents had the foresight (and money) to fix my teeth.

Funny thing is, my husband also had top and bottom braces.

And it looks like ALL three of my kids will need them too.

Yikes!

The other funny things is… I still never bite into things with my front teeth and I always cut up my apples and carrots before I eat them!


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Caving at Stockyard Gully National Park

30 June 2017

Stockyard Gully Caves

Last month, we went camping near Jurien Bay (about 2.5 hour drive from Perth) with some friends and their kids.

We spent the day visiting some caves in the Stockyard Gully National Park… and did a little walk along a The Stockyard Gully Trail.

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The first cave we saw was very cool. It was about 300m long, with a completely sand covered floor.

It was very easy for the kids/toddlers to walk through.

We all had head-light torches, which made it extra exciting. However at the start of the cave we didn’t let the kids turn on their torches, just to show them how human eyes can adjust to fading light and darkness.

It didn’t last long though, because the younger kids freaked out.

Stockyard Gully Caves

This is my teenager at the end of the first cave, with his “will you stop taking photos already” pose.

We had a 10 minutes walk to the second cave, which was also very cool.

(As shown in my top photo)

That was a lot toughed for little kids, as we needed to scramble over really big, and often sharp, rocks and narrow ledges.

The cave path didn’t go all the way through. We walked some way in until the ground got too wet and slippery, then we turned around and headed back.

It was a fun day out!

You’ll need a 4WD to access the caves. There is a proper car park, picnic benches, information boards, nice eco toilets, but no water.

More info about the Stockyard Gully Caves here.


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Off on a New Adventure: Uluru

24 June 2017

Uluru by Award Winning Landscape Photographer, Luke Tscharke

(Amazing photo of Uluru by Award Winning Landscape Photographer, Luke Tscharke.)

Hi everyone!

My family and I are off on a new adventure to Central Australia, to visit Uluru, Kata Tjuta, Alice Springs, Kings Canyon and more.

It’ll be mind-blowing!!

And it’ll be a bit cold.

We’ll be gone for 4 weeks and we’ll have very limited internet, so I’ll be trying to upload updates whenever I can on Instagram (@karenlycheng) and Facebook (@karenchengblog).

In the meantime, I have a few lovely posts, stories and outfits to share, that are set on auto-upload every couple of days and they will appear on my blog over the next few weeks.

Thanks for reading!


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Impressionist Parkscapes

19 June 2017

Autumn Run in the Park

I went for a run the other day and my park was going crazy.

Ah it looked like a painting straight from the French Impressionists.

The yellows! The browns! The oranges!

The cute, crunchy sounds of fluttering leaves!

I had to stop, sit on the little bench to enjoy the moment.

I actually wanted someone to shake the ground like a big snowdome, so I could dance through the park as the leaves swirled around me.

It was such a beautiful moment.

Have a wonderful week!


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Sunset at Sandy Cape Beach

16 June 2017

Sandy Cape Beach, Jurien Bay

This was us, at our recent camping trip at Sandy Cape Beach, near Jurien Bay!

We had set up our tents, tables, gas stove, boiled some water, made a cup of tea, put out our camp chairs, cracked open the cheese and biscuits and sat back to relax. The kids had other ideas. They ran off to the beach and promised me they wouldn’t get wet.

I let them go, watching them climb up the sand dune, each flapping their arms in a tangled boyish run. They are all old enough to be left alone. They all can swim. There were other adults watching over them.

I knew that despite them saying that they wouldn’t get wet… they would. So I pulled out the towels from the car and draped it over their camp chairs. I’m such a good mum to my boys.

I pulled out my pots and pans, getting ready to make dinner in my camp kitchen. Chopping board, onions, sweet potato, steaks.

The sun set, the light all around me turned an exquisite golden peach. The sand dunes around me glowed orange. The sky began to turn on a spectacular gradient, from reds to pinks to purples to blues with a hint of green, if that’s even possible.

Ahhh, it was so beautiful!

What was I doing? It was standing next to a beach with the sun setting behind it, and I was chopping onions omg.

I grabbed my camera, climbed over the sand hill and found my kids.

Of course, they were in their shorts, in the middle of winter, swimming in the surf. Of course.


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Keratin Hair Smoothing Treatment

14 June 2017

So I don’t know if any of you noticed in the post above – maybe you were too polite, or too well brought up to say anything — oh the state of my hair!

I know it’s a first world problem, but do let me rant a bit about my unruly Asian hair.

My hair has been like a high-maintenance pet.

I got it permed about 9 months ago. Before that, it was coloured. Before that, it was permed. So it’s pretty damaged, dry, rough and straw-like.

Curi Hair - Keratin Smoothing Treatment

(Before)

What’s wrong with my hair?

I wash my hair, blow dry it and it’s boofy, frizzy and fluffy like crazy. Rough like straw.

I put heaps of product, iron it flat, more product. After 1.5 days, it’s oily, heavy and itchy, from all the product.

Then I have to shampoo it TWICE to get the product out. I have to rotate conditioner brands to prevent build up. Takes me ages to wash my hair. Then it takes me ages to blow dry it. Then I have to flat iron it + product.

Repeat. It’s constant washing, taming and smoothing.

(Ok it looks nice in the photo, but it took me ages to get it like that!)

I finally had enough. I decided that I was going to cut it short, again. Have a bob or lob or blob or whatever, because I’m sick of my hair.

I went to my hair dresser, Curi Hair in Subiaco.

Told them the whole story with lots of exasperated hand waving.

They knew I wanted to grow it long, so Senior Hair Stylist, Tiffany, suggested I try a Keratin Hair Smoothing Treatment instead of chopping my hair off!

Curi Hair - Keratin Smoothing Treatment

(After)

This is me immediately after.

The results: Smooth, sleek, soft and straight hair for about 2 months.

It’s NOT as damaging as a Straightening / Rebonding Perm.

It’s super easy to look after. Blow drying takes less time.

The result is not limp, dead-straight hair. It still maintains a slight natural wave (if you have one), so it looks very natural.

It’s really good for people with: Damaged hair! Especially hair that is frizzy, weak and damaged from colouring, bleaching, perms and heating tools.

​Cost: Starts at $200, my length was $250.

Time: Mine took about 2 hours to do.

Note: This treatment has been around for years, but in the recent years they have relaunched a new and improved formula. If you had this treatment in the past and it didn’t work for you, you might want to try again?

I’m soooo happy with the result and so thankful that I didn’t chop my hair off!


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Quick Getaway to Sandy Cape Campsite

5 June 2017

Sandy Cape, Jurien Bay WA

My big boy and I took a walk at 6am to watch the pink sunrise over the sand dunes in our pyjamas. We were barefoot, bed-haired and blurry-eyed. We slid down sand dunes and almost got ourselves lost in the strange sandy landscape. Love sharing these silly moments with my kids!

This weekend, we took a few days off to go camping with friends. It was a much needed break for everyone.

I was quite torn though. I really didn’t want to go, because I was so stressed about all the preparations that needed to be done before we left.

(There actually wasn’t THAT much preparation. It just seemed a lot bigger and terrifying in my head.)

But as we arrived, set up camp, watch the kids run off and play and then made that first cup of tea on our camp stove… I felt my bones relax, my spirit soften, and that tight grip in my chest disappear.

It felt good to switch off and unplug from the rest of the world.

Sandy Cape, Jurien Bay WA

We went to Sandy Cape Recreation Park, which is near Jurien Bay, about a 2.5 hour drive from Perth. The “recreation park” name is a bit misleading though. It is a very basic, sandy camp site, with eco-toilets, rainwater tanks, a few BBQs and gazebos. No kitchen, no showers, no drinking water, and no pre-booking sites.

But it was definitely one of the best little campsites that we’ve been to!

Plus there were lots of things to do with the kids: Swimming, snorkelling, beach, sand dunes, bush walks, caves nearby, Pinnacles nearby, and lots of little towns to visit.


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May Coffee Catch Up

26 May 2017

Flowers in the Garden

Hello hello! So what has been happening in Karen-land?

1) My kids. Ok. Wow. We are not friends. They are the worst. Seriously, how many times do I have to tell them to do something? How hard is it to do their daily jobs? Why do they have to leave a trail of crap lying around EVERYWHERE!! Why can’t they pick up after themselves?? Nag nag nag scold scold scold punish punish punish. That is my life.

I love them and all that, but they also give me the shits.

2) Work is intense! I’m on the verge of losing my shit. Not quite there yet though. I’m going away on holiday for 4 weeks in July and I’ve been trying to fit 3 months of work (May, June, June) into 1 month (May). It’s the end of the month now. I couldn’t do it. The kids head off to school around 8 – 8:30am. I jump on the computer. Then suddenly 6 hours are gone. My desk is littered with 3 empty cups of coffee, empty snack bowls, papers, pens, cameras, SD cards everywhere! It’s 2:30pm and I have to pick up my youngest from school and switch back into mum-mode. There are just not enough hours in a day.

Actually, to be honest, I probably could have done it if I neglected the other ares of my life! I still made time for exercise, cooking meals for my family, home chores, hanging out with my kids, having coffee with my sister and girlfriends, and date night with my husband. I have to keep my sanity!

3) My grandma is sick. Despite my busy schedule, my mountain of work, my long list of things to do, and this tight grip of anxiety in my chest… I’ve been popping into hospital to visit my sick grandma. She’s 97. Over the last 10 years, she’s had heart surgery, a broken hip, problems with her kidneys and other things, but she always bounced right back. I’m in awe at her strength and good spirits.

Sitting next to her, holding her hand, feeding her spoonfuls of water, helping her change position in bed, marvelling at the 97 years of her life, humbled by the loooong queue of people coming to visit her… all my anxieties melt away and what is really important in life becomes crystal clear: human contact, connections with people, family and friends, healthy relationships, smiles, laughter and being easy-going, kind and gracious (like my grandma!).

4) My inbox. This morning I woke up to see that my inbox had clocked over 2,000 unopened emails. It was the last straw. One hour later, there were ZERO unopened emails. I know. I am amazing. However, there are about 900 flagged emails that I have to work through, gulp.

5) My skin! Oh my gosh! I’ve had a few non-invasive treatments called Collagen Induction Therapy (or Skin Needling) and my skin is looking so radiant at the moment. So much of my pigmentation is gone. Can wait to share the before and after photos!

6) Rooibos. I am trying oh-so hard to cut back on my caffeine. I could easily drink 4-5 cups of coffee each day. My main problem is that I want to drink something warm and milky (soy or almond milk) all the time. So I’ve discovered the joys of Rooibos + Vanilla Tea… which tastes like a mild chai tea, and it’s a pretty good substitute for now.

7) Uggs. I bought myself a pair of Ugg Boots for the first time in 10 years. How did I EVER live without them? They are not the official Ugg boots (which cost $220). They were just fur lined boots from Target. They are soooo warm, soooo snuggly and soooo comfy, that I shed a little tear when I have to take them off to pick up the kids from school. One day. I can feel it coming. One day, I will go “Stuff It” and wear my Ugg boots to school pick up.

8) My taste in music. Quite frankly, it’s embarrassing. You’d think that with my affinity for classic literature, I’d have a broad and quirky taste in music. Nope. My boys and I are addicted to Spotify and the Global Top 50 Charts…. and I am seriously crushing Harry Styles right now. I like Drake, The Weeknd, Kendrick Lamar, The Chainsmokers, the new song by Charlie Puth, Shawn Mendes, Niall Horan (how good is his new song?!), Hailee Seinfeld, Selena Gomez… omg I even like Justin Bieber.

I have the same music taste as my 8 year old – HAHA!

(Except he likes Ed Sheeran and I don’t.)

9) Behind the times. So my husband and I watched the very first episode of “Breaking Bad” the other day. It was great! It was first aired in 2008, so we’re only 9 years behind the times.

10) More on music. Ok you know what? I do like my 90s old school rap, hiphop, R&B, grunge, electronic music, …Radiohead, Beastie Boys, Nirvana, Pearl Jam, Prodigy, Massive Attack, Chemical Brothers, Metallica, The Smashing Pumpkins, 50 Cent, TLC, Blackstreet, Lauryn Hill… and all the classic hip hop pop tunes!

My music taste isn’t thaaaaaat bad, right?!

We were supposed to test out our camping equipment this weekend, but we postponed it to next weekend. I feel like I’ve been gifted an extra week of prep!

Wishing you all a lovely weekend!

xxx


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The Goods Shed: Painting Power. Ritual, Art & Land

19 May 2017

Painting Power, at The Good Shed

This week, I popped over to Claremont to The Goods Shed, a new creative space for art exhibitions, installations, artist residencies, community and learning events.

It occupies a renovated heritage railway building – which is very cool – a little landscaped garden, a cafe and an outside sitting area.

I went to an event there a few months ago and I loved the space! So I followed them on Instagram and have since received little updates on events… including this art exhibition, which caught my eye and made me immediately scribble the details into my calendar:

Painting Power | Ritual, Art & Land.

It is a collection of paintings by Indigenous artists from the remote art centres of  Tjala Arts, Warlukurlangu Artists of Yuendumu, Ikuntji Artists, Martumili Arts, Mimili Maku Arts and Munupi Arts.

According to the information panels: The exhibition explores the relationship between the power of nature and the energy of ritual traditions. It considers the significance of art to Aboriginal life and its role as a bridge between the physical and spiritual realms as a way of expressing belief, tradition and contemporary life.

I thought the artworks were absolutely BEAUTIFUL!

Painting Power, at The Good Shed

Antara by Puna Yanima (From Mimili Maku Arts.)

I think this was my favourite. The selection of colours were stunning and shapes were just full of movement, dance and song!

Antara is a well known and significant rock hole, where women perform a dance ceremony to make witchery grubs for everyone to eat.

Painting Power, at The Good Shed

Kuruyultu by Eunice Napanangka Jack (from Ikuntji Arts)

The artist paints her father’s dreaming story about a group of ancestral men chasing an owl ancestor with a spear and hitting the ground with a digging stick.

I couldn’t quite see the story captured in the painting, as it was a bit abstract. But it was an amazing painting nonetheless!

It was so therapeutic to look at and filled me with a soft, gentle, relaxing feeling, like when I comb my hair or the dirt. Totally not related to the story though haha.

Painting Power, at The Good Shed

Seven Sisters, by Janie Kulyuru Lewis (from Tjala Arts)

That vibrant red is mesmerising. It looked like living, moving blood (not in a gruesome way, but in a life-giving way), or the heartbeat of the earth from above.

Painting Power, at The Good Shed

Untitled, by Mona Mitakiki Shepherd (from Tjala Arts)

Ahh, yet another gorgeous painting with universal appeal. How amazing are these colours and speckled patterns?!

They remind me of the ocean, or fields of flowers. So happy, energetic and full of life.

Painting Power, at The Good Shed

This is the lovely art space of The Goods Shed.

I love the old surfaces of wood and the exposed textures mixed with the clean white lines.

The Good Shed, Claremont

This is outside of the building, where you can grab a coffee from The Coffee Pod Cafe.

It was so nice to sit on the little table and chairs and enjoy the sunshine.

Painting Power, The Good Shed

But this is me with my takeaway coffee about to head back into the gallery for a second look at the paintings. This time I’m not taking photos on my camera or my phone, I’m just looking at them with my own eyes to soak them up properly!

The Goods Shed
Cnr of Shenton Rd and Claremont Cres
Claremont WA 6010

Operating Hours
Monday to Friday: 8am – 3pm
Weekends: 9am – 3pm


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Steamboat for Mother’s Day

16 May 2017

 

Steamboat - Mothers Day 2017

My husband’s family comes from a conservative Scottish/Anglo background, where dinner is a meat and 3 veg, eaten quietly and properly, with long, slow, in-depth and eloquent conversations about politics, the state of the national education system, Scottish poets, the history of modern customs, or the latest discussions on Q&A.

(Haha I’m slightly exaggerating.)

Whereas my Chinese family is the complete opposite. And there is no better example than the “Family Steamboat Dinner” to illustrate just how completely opposite our families are!

Our dinner table is WILD with sizzle, noise, smells, loud talking, Chinese tea, crazy cooking action and 4 random conversations happening at once, mixed with selfies and sharing silly videos.

While I like the best of both worlds, and try to create a mixed cultural experience for my own family and kids… I still consider my parent’s steamboat dinners to be home.

I took this photo on Mother’s Day at my parent’s house. We were having a steamboat dinner for 13 adults and 7 kids on a separate table. Unfortunately I took it before all the sliced lamb, sliced pork belly, and sliced ox tongue came out… damn, it would’ve looked much more epic!


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Flowers, Chocolate and Hugs

14 May 2017

Mother's Day 2017

This Mother’s Day, I told my kids that I didn’t want/need a lavish spoiling that took up 5 hours of my weekend!

All I really want is a small, genuine hug from each of my children, every day.

And I already get that. So I’m already pretty happy.

I get a hug and a quick : I love ya mum! Or I appreciate everything you do! Or Thanks for doing all that stuff for me! Sorry for driving you crazy! Thank for filling out those forms! Sorry for that outburst, let me make it up to you. Can I take out the rubbish bag? Thanks for making that milkshake for me! That was a yummy dinner!

In the end, I did get a cooked breakfast (bacon omelette, just how I like it!), some crafty cards, flowers, chocolates, and a deformed lemon coconut  cupcake. Except that it wasn’t a cupcake, it was a BATH BOMB!

Haha it seriously looked like a cupcake to me. I almost ate it!!

As I wrote on my Instagram, I didn’t have a completely stress-free and relaxing day. I still fought with my kids, made them do chores, shouted at them, took away their devices, I still had errands to run, work to catch up on, kids to manage, meals to cook, activities to plan. It was the mum-life as usual. But that’s ok. It all balances out in the end, I’m not too fussed.

Hope you had a great weekend!


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Koozå by Cirque Du Soleil

5 May 2017

Kooza Cirque Du Soleil

Last week, I was kindly invited to watch Cirque Du Soleil’s latest show in Perth, Kooza!

Kooza is a return to Cirque Du Soleil’s origins and a homage to the traditional circus show. It has a strong focus on acrobats, performances and clowns, but still features a little story arc.

I was a bit nervous… because I didn’t know what to expect, aaaaand I don’t really like clowns (especially the bit where they walk around the crowd to find a “volunteer” from the audience to come up onto stage)!

But I was completely blown away by the whole show.

Here’s a few photos from the Cirque Du Soleil website.

Koozå by Cirque Du Soleil
(Photos courtesy of Cirque Du Soleil. Photo by M. Beard.)

There were tightrope walkers, contortionist-type acrobats, a guy who balanced on 10 stacked chairs, 2 guys on a spinning wheel thing, jumping acrobats… and more.

When I write it all out like that, it sounds a bit unimpressive. And it sounds like you could see much cooler stuff on TV or YouTube?

But no! To see it IN REAL LIFE was just mind blowing! These guys were doing the most AAAAMAZING tricks, with such talent and skill, I was frozen with terror, wonder, astonishment and relief!

My mouth was open from utter disbelief for most of the show. My heart was pounding, leaping out of my chest, or stuck in my throat. For some parts, I had to cover my eyes with my hands and peek through my fingers. And other parts, I laughed out loud with delight.

It was true, traditional, entertainment of the senses.

Real Life definitely beats YouTube!

Kooza Cirque Du Soleil

After the show, my husband and I were invited for a backstage tour. We were lead out to a very large tent out the back, where the performers worked, trained and relaxed.

Those things hanging from the ceiling are all the feathered head pieces used in the show, hung upside down for storage.

Koozå by Cirque Du Soleil

I met one of the performers, who was just lovely!

I had instant arm envy.

Kooza Cirque Du Soleil

We took a peek at the costume wardrobe, which was enormous. Just imagine taking this photo above and laying it out side-by-side four times and you’ll get an idea how many costumes there were.

Interestingly, we were told that a lot of the costumes get damaged after every show and have to be repaired.

Or sometimes some of the performers gain or lose weight, so costumes have to be adjusted to fit. Hence the sewing machines in the foreground.

Kooza Cirque Du Soleil

Here’s a close up of some hats.

I loved the little details!

Kooza Cirque Du Soleil

In the days before 3D printers, specialised spare parts for the costumes used to be sent in from overseas and would take weeks to arrive.

But now the travelling team can print out their own spare parts!

Kooza Cirque Du Soleil

And here’s something that caught my eye.

A wall full of labelled cups to remind me that despite the “magic of the big top”, acrobats and performers are normal people with jobs too.

A big thank you to Cirque Du Soleil for the wonderful experience!

Kooza runs in Perth until 11 June, with tickets starting at AUD$60.

You can also get Family 4-Pack tickets or Premium Tickets with a Backstage Tour. Parking is an extra $15 and refreshments were a bit expensive, so make sure you pack your own if you take your kids.

Enjoy!


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Life From Laziness

25 April 2017

Ok here’s a funny story.

Before I left for my 4 week long trip to London and Paris (in January)… I snipped off a pretty hydrangea flower stem from my garden, placed it into a tall jar of water and left it in my laundry.

You know, for decoration.

Then I hopped on a plane and left my husband and three kids at home.

4 weeks later.

I noticed that no one thought to throw out the rotting stem?!

Hydrangea Sprout

But I also noticed that a baby hydrangea had sprouted!

It was very cute.

Hydrangea Sprout

I didn’t know hydrangeas grew from stem cuttings!

And I wouldn’t have known this because… I would have NEVER left a rotten stick in a jar of water for 4 weeks!!!


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Read: When Breath Becomes Air

14 April 2017

When Breath Becomes Air

I usually stay away from memoirs about cancer.

My husband is a walking, talking memoir of cancer survival…

And whenever I volunteer for cancer fundraising events, I hear so many inspiring and heart-breaking stories about cancer.

I’m not exactly seeking out to read yet another cancer story.

However, I picked up When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi after hearing so many positive reviews.

What makes this story so different?

Paul Kalanithi died in March 2015. He was aged 36. He was a brilliant neurosurgeon, and outstanding researcher. He was a lover of literature. He had a brilliant philosophical mind. He was a doctor, then he became a patient. He left behind a wife and baby daughter.

He wrote it at a very particular time of his life – near the end – while faced with death. So parts of it reads like a stream of consciousness.

It’s a bit intellectual. It’s a bit heavy.

It’s a very philosophical. It’s very sad. I cried.

I’m glad I read it.

However, strangely, I wouldn’t recommend it to everyone.

Those who are looking for a general “roll up your sleeves and get practical about living the best life you can” kind of inspiration, probably won’t find it here. This book is much more of a deep, introspective, pondering look into one man’s very particular life, with very particular views.

If anything, it’ll possibly help you feel and understand what it might be like to face death with a brave and courageous heart.

On another note, if you’re interested, you can take a peek at my Goodreads Reading List if you like.


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School Holiday Basketball Fun

11 April 2017

Brought to you by Vicinity Centres Aussie Hoops

School Holiday Basketball Fun with Aussie Hoops

School holidays are upon us!

My kids and I were kindly invited by Vicinity Centres Aussie Hoops to try out their school holiday pop up “Super Hooper” at Galleria Shopping Centre.

It was a lot of fun! My kids are totally obsessed with basketball!

They really enjoyed the set up. They had the opportunity to shoot some hoops; they had a good run around, they received some tips, and had a whole lot of ball fun …while I sat back with a take away coffee haha.

Best of all, it was free.

School Holiday Basketball Fun with Aussie Hoops

The Aussie Hoops Super Hooper runs during the school holidays from:
Tuesday 11 April 2017: 9.45am – 4.15pm
Wednesday 12 April 2017: 9.45am – 4.15pm
Thursday 13 April 2017: 9.45am – 9.15pm

At the Galleria Shopping Centre:
Corner of Collier & Walter Roads, Morley, WA.

School Holiday Basketball Fun with Aussie Hoops

I managed to speak to one of the coaches to find out a bit more about the basketball program.

(He did an excellent job of talking to me and making sure I didn’t get hit in the face with a basketball!)

The Vicinity Centres Aussie Hoops program is actually the official introductory basketball program for Basketball Australia, aimed at children from 5-10 years old.

The program features a national coaching curriculum delivered by accredited coaches. Each lesson is a specially designed sequence of warm up activities, skills coaching and modified games.

The whole thing is federally endorsed and structured, and provides a pathway to an elite level into Basketball Australia. Sounds a bit hard core, but there is a clear focus for children to develop skills, enjoy an active lifestyle and have fun!

There are centres all over Australia, and about 15 in Perth – Atwell, Aubin Grove, Beeliar, Belmont, Coogee, East Vic Park, Gosnells, Hamilton Hill, Jandakot, Leederville, Morley, Samson, Success, Wanneroo and White Gum Valley.

If you’re keen, do check out the Find a Program page at the Vicinity Centres Aussie Hoops website.

The programs run during the school term, so it’s a great time to enquire or enrol your kids so that they can start basketball when school starts.

School Holiday Basketball Fun with Aussie Hoops

My kids have been playing basketball for 6 seasons (3 years) as part of a local team – separate to Aussie Hoops. They absolutely love it. And I absolutely love watching them play.

We’re so fortunate that our program is run at a local basketball stadium, which is a 2 minute drive from our house! So, it’s great to see Aussie Hoops providing an opportunity for kids all across Australia to try out basketball in shopping centres and be inspired to get active.

Basketball has been such a great way for my kids to stay fit, connect socially, hang out with friends, and learn how to be part of a team.

All three of my kids are the smallest and shortest in their team (I’m not kidding!), but they are fast, agile, coordinated… and they have learned how to use it to their advantage and hold their own against the massive, tall guys!

I literally beam with pride every time I watch each of them play. It totally makes my week.

A big thank you to Vicinity Centres Aussie Hoops for the fun morning – my kids have decided that ALL shopping centres should be permanently fitted out with an indoor basketball court haha!


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Throw Back: Diving With Sharks

7 April 2017

Last weekend, I was at a party and someone asked me how I knew a few other people.

My answer, “Oh I used to scuba dive with them…”

They were a bit stunned, they couldn’t believe I used to scuba dive!?

So I dug out a photo (yeah I did a web search on my own blog haha!) and showed them.

Dive With Sharks at AQWA (2008)

That’s me in the shark tank at AQWA!

It was such a fun and unforgettable dive.

The photo was taken by one of my terrified children, standing on the other side of the glass. Here’s my blog post about the whole experience.

I’m so glad I have this photo :)

I look at it and I am immediately transported back into time, to what seems like a different life! While I don’t have any deep yearnings to go back into time, I look at it and am so happy that it was one of the weird and wonderful things that made up the jigsaw puzzle of my life.


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Potting Orchids for my Mum

3 April 2017

On the weekend, it was my mother’s 70th birthday.

I planned to take my mum on a little staycation – to book her (and myself) into a fancy hotel for one night, enjoy dinner, a massage, buffet breakfast and a bit of relaxing by the pool! Sounds so good right?

However the timing wasn’t great, so we had to postpone the hotel stay to another date. Which meant on the actual day of her birthday, I’d be giving her a big fat NOTHING.

My sister and I came up with an idea to give her an orchid… because all three of us like buying orchids for each other haha.

Re-potting Orchids

I went to Bunnings and found a very pretty one!

But it looked a little small and lonely by itself, so I decided that I was going to buy TWO orchids and combine them into a nice pot… to make a more worthy looking 70th present.

Orchids were about $30 each, the pot was $20 and the orchid mix was about $10.

Re-potting Orchids

I filled the pot with potting mix and made sure the height of the orchid was ok.

I also made sure that the leaves of the two orchids didn’t crash into each other, and that the flower stems turned inwards, towards each other, rather than outwards.

Re-potting Orchids

I made a little mess, but the whole process was so simple!

Re-potting Orchids

It was such a good-looking gift!

We celebrated my mum’s birthday with 80 family and friends, we ate lobster noodles and a very large, triple-layered pandan cake. YUM!

Re-potting Orchids

And here’s a close up of the orchids. So pretty!


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Liam Turns 8

29 March 2017

Liams 8th Birthday 2017

My little baby turned 8 last week!

Which means it has been 8 years since I did all that newborn stuff – labour, child birth, breastfeeding, sleep deprivation, reflux, changing nappies, endless laundry, mixing formula and making baby food – yikes!

When I think about it in a big, fluffy, general sense… it feels like only yesterday.

But when I try to recall all the little, tiny details, it feels like a lifetime ago. (That is, I have no idea how many millimetres of milk my kids used to drink in one feed, so please don’t ask haha!)

So my little Liam celebrated his birthday with a few of his closest friends at a bowling and arcade centre.

I think all the kids enjoyed putting coins into the machines to collect tickets, to swap them for styrofoam aeroplanes, more than the actual bowling itself!

We made a double-layered, chocolate cake, with a layer of hundred’s and thousand’s icing mixture in between. We decorated the cake with three of Liam’s favourite lollies – Skittles, Maltesers and Jelly Snakes. Sugar overload!

It was a bit of a mess in the end, but he was beyond happy!


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Reading: Far From The Madding Crowd

24 March 2017

Thomas Hardy - Far from a Madding Crowd

As I mentioned a few days ago, I’m reading Far From The Madding Crowd by Thomas Hardy and I’m a few chapters away from finishing it.

Yes it’s a romance set in 19th Century English countryside. If you like books by Jane Austen and the Bronte sisters, then you’ll probably enjoy this one.

I read my first Thomas Hardy last year and he totally floors me with his writing and language.

Here’s one of my guilty, dorky secrets haha: I like to read with a pencil nearby, so I can circle sentences  and paragraphs that make my eyes pop and my brain explode. Then I fold over the corner of the page, so in the future I can pick up the novel and quickly re-read my favourite parts of the book.

Ha!

Anyway, since I share stories, photos, food and clothes that inspires me, I feel that I have to share my favourite snippets from this book!

1) Context: Gabriel and Bathsheba [the novel’s heroine] met along the path and Gabriel couldn’t take his eyes off her.

“Rays of male vision seem to have a tickling effect upon virgin faces in rural districts: she hastily brushed hers with her hand, as if Gabriel had been irritating its pink surface with a long straw, and the free air of her previous movements was reduced at the same time to a chastened phase of itself. Yet it was the man who blushed, the maid not at all.”

2) “The rain stretched obliquely through the drab atmosphere in liquid spines, unbroken in continuity between their beginnings in the clouds and their points on him.”

3) “Bathsheba loved Troy in the way that only self-reliant women love when they abandon their self-reliance. When a strong woman recklessly throws away her strength she is worse than a weak woman who has never any strength to throw away. One source of her inadequacy is the novelty of the occasion. She has never had practice in making the best of such a condition. Weakness is doubly weak by being new.”

4) “To persons standing alone on a hill during a clear midnight such as this, the roll of the world eastward is almost a palpable movement. The sensation may be caused by the panoramic glide of the stars past earthly objects, which is perceptible in a few minutes of stillness, or by the better outlook upon space that a hill affords, or by the wind, or by the solitude; but whatever be its origin the impression of riding along is vivid and abiding. The poetry of motion is a phrase much in use, and to enjoy the epic form of that gratification it is necessary to stand on a hill at a small hour of the night, and, having first expanded with a sense of difference from the mass of civilized mankind, who are dreamwrapt and disregardful of all such proceedings at this time, long and quietly watch your stately progress through the stars. After such a nocturnal reconnoitre it is hard to get back to earth, and to believe that the consciousness of such majestic speeding is derived from a tiny human frame.”

5) “He had been held to her by a beautiful thread which it pained him to spoil by breaking, rather than by a chain he could not break.”

Ah sorry, I could go on. But I’d better not. It’s a lovely book to read.

And I can’t wait to read some of his poetry!

If you’re interested, you can take a peek at my Goodreads Reading list here if you like.


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March Coffee Catch Up

22 March 2017

Purple Skies
(I snapped this photo of the purple sky during one of my evening walks.)

Hi everyone!

This year started with an almighty bang!

So much has happened in the last couple of months… and I haven’t really stepped back to take a breather and review everything.

What’s been happening?

1) Travel. I was in London for 4 weeks. I popped over to Paris too. I was away from my husband and kids for the whole time. I absolutely loved the whole experience of travelling / freedom / exploring / wanderlust / no responsibilities.

For me, it cemented the fact that I’m on the other side of parenting young children. I had my first child at 25, while all my friends were travelling, partying, establishing their careers and enjoying no responsibilities. At the time, a small part of me was sad that I was missing out on all that – but hey, here I am on the other side, travelling, partying, establishing my career and having no responsibilities – haha not really, but kind of!

2) My freelancing business is growing! Work is on the increase. Lots of new projects are rolling in. I’m having lots of pinch-me moments in terms of the kind of projects I’m working on. Things I do right now: I run my blog, I do freelance work as a photographer, a graphic designer, an art director, a content creator and a social media consultant and manager. Phew.

Sounds so pretentious when I say it all like that. I basically sit on my computer all day and make pretty stuff ha!

I’m still working on a part-time basis. And I’m so so grateful for the work-life balance.

3) Birthdays. My children’s birthdays all fall in March & April, so they will all move up a year. I will soon have a 14 year old, a 12 year old and an 8 year old. Yikes!

Basically, I have two kids in high school, one in Year 9, one in Year 7, and one kid in Primary School, Year 3. Yikes!

4) I have mini-teenagers now. However, they are not very typical teenaged boys. You see, they are all really chatty.

Lots of parenting articles and advice columns talk about how to get your teenagers to talk… how teenagers go through a “grunting” stage… how parents can initiate conversations… how parents can talk to teens so that they’ll listen…

Not my boys. OMG I can’t get them to shut up!

My boys are really chatty. As soon as they come home from school, they will fall over themselves to tell me the latest news of the day. I get an hour-by-hour run down on what happened, who said what, who did what, what they think about their teachers, their teaching methods, the subjects at school, about the new kid in class, about upcoming events, what kind of sneaker they should buy, what happened in the latest online game, what kind of job they want in the future, their latest ideas for a fast money making scheme to make them millionaires, what they think about the latest Ed Sheeran song… omg it just goes on and on and freaking on.

I listen. I don’t get too judgemental. I laugh. I roll my eyes at them. I join in with their banter. I mock and tease them. I throw in some pearls of wisdom. Or add my own entertaining story. But most of the time, we just talk shit.

Anyway, I feel it’s a blessing that I get to hear all the crap in their heads! Better than nothing right?

5) School work. In terms of their studies, my kids seem to be doing pretty well. I have backed off all my help and assistance. I let them work out their own time management, due dates, assignments, revision and they seem to be on top of things.

However, I can’t STOP being an Asian parent. I have to BITE my tongue whenever they come home with 19/25 on a test.

Yes yes, you tried your best, but, seriously dude, how hard is 22/25?

And one day, one of my kids said to me – Hey guess what mum? I made a very cool discovery this week. I realised that if I pay *just a little* more attention in class, I can get an A in my tests. Can you believe that? It’s cool. Who’d have thought it’d be so easy?

*Face palm*

6) Exercise. I have slowed down significantly in the last few months. I blame my increasing workload. I do a bit of swimming, a bit of yoga, a bit of cycling and a bit of running per week.

Key words here: a bit.

7) Next family holiday. Omg people! This is epic! We’re planning a trip to Central Australia. We’re going to drive to Uluru. Yes we’re driving! Personally, I’d prefer to fly there, but it’s all about the journey right?

It’ll be simply amazing for our family. But there’s so much planning and preparation. And I’m a little tense about it all.

8) Anxiety. Usually I’m pretty stable in terms of my mood swings, emotions, temperament, confidence, self-esteem and overall positive outlook on life. I’m usually a happy and easy going person!

But two/three days in the month, I’m a total wreck. Little things send me into a blind panic. One word, or comment, or news article, or Instagram post from someone will send me into a deep dark pit of darkness. I think I’m shit. I think all my work is shit. Everything I do is shit. I think life in general is meaningless, pointless, and just total shit. It’s a brain-numbing paralysis. It’s totally irrational. It’s hard to breathe. Hard to think. Hard to function.

I console myself in the fact that it only happens once a month, it is not my normal, and it goes away. No doubt it coincides with my monthly hormone cycles.

9) Brooklyn Nine-Nine has been my go-to answer for finding meaning at the end of the day. Only joking. It’s how we de-stress in the evenings. I am literally snorting with laughter and doing the whole “ugly laughing” thing. It’s so good haha.

10) I’m Currently Reading two books at once. Far From the Madding Crowd by Thomas Hardy. I’m halfway through. The language is just lovely. But the heroine is really annoying me at the moment. Three men have fallen in love with her and vying for her attention, and she chooses the worst one. Ugh.

Just like Anna Karenina, I want to slap some sense into her. I hope she redeems herself soon. Probably not. It’d be a short novel if she did.

So I’m reading Catch 22 by Joseph Heller. I’ve always wanted to read it. My husband has kept his high school copy, so that’s the version I’m reading. It’s hilarious so far. And a bit weird. I’m loving it.

OK ten points will do for now.

Thanks for reading! I’m off for a run!

xxx


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Korean Digital Perm for Medium Hair

17 March 2017

6 months ago, I went to Curi Hair Korean Hair Salon to have a Korean Digital Perm for Medium Hair – I wanted big, loose waves and straight ends.

I know I can create that look myself with my hair curler. But it takes me FOREVER to do it, because I have such thick hair.

I wanted permanent, everyday curls! I’m so lazy!

Korean Digital Perm for Medium Hair

I took in these photos of blogger extraordinaire Nicole Warne and Aimee Song to show my hair stylist.

I wasn’t expecting the EXACT same style, as their hair styles were probably hand-styled for 3 hours to utter perfection. I just wanted something that looked similar.

I didn’t want any colour either, as I had some balayage lightening leftover from ages ago.

Korean Digital Perm for Medium Hair

The digital perm took about 3 hours – although I had to go to the toilet twice because of all the tea I was sipping.

I was suuuuper pleased with the results!

They did such a fantastic job.

Korean Digital Perm for Medium Hair

I took these photos in my car after having the perm done. I loved it!!!

So as I mentioned earlier, I had this perm done in October.

I wanted to wait 6 months before doing this review, because I wanted to share what a perm was like after a long time.

Yes you can step out of a salon looking amazing, but how is it on a day-to-day basis? How is it after 6 months? Do the curls fall out? Does it still look great? Is it high maintenance? Is it frizzy af? Is it really worth it?

A Week After the Perm

I was surprised by how dry and frizzy my hair felt. It was a bit of a shock to me. I needed to put 3-4 pumps of oil and rub it into the ends of my hair to make it look good.

Blow-drying my hair took practice. I blow-dried my hair in a random/haphazard way until it was 85% dry. Then I had to twirl locks of hair with my finger and lift it up to give the curls a nice shape and a smooth texture.

The perm was pretty tricky to manage at first. It was annoying. It was high maintenance. I was quite exasperated by all the blow-drying sometimes. My hair was like a pet haha. I had to look after it. I had to get to know it.

Experiment to find out what works. I had to experiment for a few weeks. Use more product. Use less product. More twirling. Less twirling. Blow-dry in the morning. Blow-dry at night. Hair in a pony tail. Hair left out. Use more conditioner. Use less conditioner.

But after a while, I got used to it and it’s pretty easy now!

 

6 Months After the Perm

Korean Digital Perm for Medium Hair

Photo (Left): This is me with towel dried hair, left to air dry. With a bit of hair oil.

Photo (Right): This is me after blow drying my hair and twirling. Took me 10 minutes. This is how my hair looks most of the time.

I often do a beachy look, (which is really just my lazy hair look) where I just blow-dry my hair quickly and haphazardly. Then I just use some mousse, salt spray or hair wax to get rid of the frizz and help keep the curls in shape.

I still have to use about 3 pumps of hair oil. My hair is still dry and can get frizzy on humid days.

After 6 months, the curls have not fallen out.

My hair is still really curly! It just depends on how I blow-dry my hair.

Korean Digital Perm for Medium Hair

These photos are of my hair after a more careful blow-dry to create bigger, softer curls. Again this took me about 10 minutes. I used a wet-look wax on the ends.

Korean Digital Perm for Medium Hair

This is me after a very, very gentle blow-dry. The curls are much longer, smoother and sleeker. This look takes me 20 minutes to do – which I consider to be “forever” – and I hardly ever do this because I’m lazy haha. But it looks really good!

Conclusion

Having a digital perm is NOT EASIER or LESS MAINTENANCE than everyday hair. It’s a different kind of maintenance.

If you’re looking for a hairstyle that is super low maintenance, then this is probably not for you.

For me, I absolutely love it!! I like the fact that I can blow-dry my hair for 10 minutes and have lovely, everyday curls. It’s a bit messy, it’s a bit boofy, it doesn’t have to look perfect.

Everyday I channel the “messy hair, don’t care” vibe haha. I like it.

Blow-drying is much easier than using a hot curling wand. So for me, that’s a WIN.

It’s been 6 months and I think it has been totally worth it!

* By the way, this is the second time I’ve had a digital perm. The last time, I had really long hair and I wanted very tight curls. You can read my blog post about it here.

xxx


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London’s Natural History Museum : Highlights

10 March 2017

Natural History Museum London

I was going to save my “first visit” to the Natural History Museum for when I was in London with my kids.

 

They love all this Natural World kind of stuff!

Me? I don’t really like looking at dead, stuffed animals, so why put myself through the pain of seeing it all twice?

As it turned out, the museum was very cool and I really enjoyed myself.

Yes there were lots of stuffed animals.

But I had a couple of WOW moments too. Especially with the dinosaur bones.

Say what?

You’d think that after raising 3 boys, who were obsessed about dinosaurs, that I’d be pretty bored by them. Nope.

Natural History Museum London

This dinosaur skeleton was aaaaamazing.

It is the most intact and complete Stegosaurus fossil skeleton ever found.

It was presented so well –  its pose, height, directional lighting to capture its texture, the colour of the light.

Even though it was just propped up on a white platform, it was so engaging and compelling. It made my jaw fall to the floor in awe, and it made my imagination come alive!

Natural History Museum London

I also loved the specimens of deep sea fish – So weird and alien looking!

The stuffed dodo – Looked like an enormous chicken!

The swarm of hummingbirds – So tiny and beautiful!

I guess I will be taking my kids after all, and seeing it all again haha.




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