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When boys are play-wrestling with each other (or with dad) they are actually learning about their bodies, strength, and limits. You should encourage it!
From the age 6-13 boys are learning how to be male. They start to “lock onto Dad” to study how to act, talk, and be a man. That window of time is the biggest opportunity for fathers to have an influence on their sons.
If boys don’t have a strong male role model at that time, they will usually find one for themselves – sporting heros, super heros, musicians, celebrities, teachers, uncles.
And a really nice tip I overheard in a side discussion – When asked about what they did at school, many boys tend to answer “Hrmph, nothing”. If you want your boys to talk to you, you have to teach them by doing it yourself. Start them young! Try a one-on-one game at bedtime called “Talk about your day” List a good thing. A bad thing. And a funny thing. (Callum loves it so far.)